Make an introduction people can answer
Mention a few interests and the kind of conversation you enjoy. A game you play, a creative hobby or a topic you would like to learn about gives people something concrete to respond to. Avoid posting a long list of personal details just to prove that you belong. There is time to decide what you want to share as you become familiar with the community.
Start in a shared channel
Public conversation gives everyone context and makes it easier to notice the community's tone. Respond to an ongoing discussion or ask a focused question rather than repeatedly posting an unanswered introduction. The absence of a reply can reflect timing and different interests; it does not justify repeated mentions or moving into someone's direct messages.
Adult conversation still has choices
An 18+ community is an age requirement, not blanket consent. Respect pronouns, DM preferences and refusals. Discuss whether private contact is welcome before initiating it. If a conversation changes direction, check that the other person wants to continue rather than relying on an earlier interaction as permanent permission.
Use activities as an opening
Memes, sticker reactions and bot games can make it easier to join a conversation when you do not know many people. They are invitations to participate in a shared activity, not a guarantee of friendship. Choose an appropriate channel and give others space to decide how much they want to engage.
Find a pace that suits you
Timezones, work and family routines influence when people can talk. Try a few reasonable times and read recent conversations before deciding whether a space fits. We Are Degenerates does not promise an always-active chat or a matchmaking service. Read the rules and verification process so expectations are clear before joining.